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Grief is often ignored

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I think it teaches us that our inner lives, our souls, know loss but the feelings of grief are often ignored or minimized in our culture.

We are afraid to recognize and vocalize how we feel in all manners of loss. We have very little ways to understand, process and publicize our mournings and sufferings. We’ve forgotten how to walk one another through the process of the cycles of life. We have few meaningful traditions, initiations or practices that help us produce anything positive from our pain. People are often alone and mask or medicate instead of transform their sufferings. We hide death from one another or we trivialize it through desensitizing it through overexposure or fantasizing with it in game, film or story.

This results in people being overly devastated or detached from healthy practices and people to help them evolve through the cycles of life.

Eric Blauer
Eric Blauerhttp://fcb4.tumblr.com/
I am Frederick Christian Blauer IV, but I go by Eric, it sounds less like a megalomaniac but still hints at my Scandinavian destiny of coastal conquest and ultimate rule. I have accumulated a fair number of titles: son, brother, husband, father, pastor, writer, artist and a few other more colorful titles by my fanged fans. I am a lover of story be it heard, read or watched in all beauty, gory or glory. I write and speak as an exorcist or poltergeist, splashing holy water, spilling wine and breaking bread between the apocalypse and a sleeping baby. I am possessed by too many words and they get driven out like wild pigs and into the waters of my blog at www.fcb4.tumblr.com. I work as a pastor at Jacob's Well Church (www.jacobswellspokane.com) across the tracks on 'that' side of town. I follow Christ in East Central Spokane among saints, sinners, angels, demons, crime, condoms, chaos, beauty, goodness and powerful weakness. I have more questions than answers, grey hairs than brown, fat than muscle, fire than fireplace and experience more love from my wife, family and friends than a man should be blessed with in one lifetime.

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