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Ask a Muslim: Does childhood trauma have a divine purpose in Islam?

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By Maimoona Harrington | FāVS News Columnist

The views expressed in this opinion column are those of the author. They do not necessarily reflect the views of FāVS News.

Q: I suffered trauma as a young child. Could that be connected to a future trial from Allah?

The Islamic term for trial is al-ibtila’. It is a concept that serves in understanding the concept of qada’ (fate) and qadar (destiny). Trials in life come in both hardship and ease, each holding a divine purpose and wisdom.

Having faith helps us understand that Allah has arranged everything in this world, and that all things happen according to his plan. When we truly believe in fate, we remain steadfast in that belief and trust that everything unfolds with his wisdom and purpose. 

The wisdom behind these trials is to purify us and cultivate gratitude and patience within us. They serve as a path toward spiritual growth, purity and elevation.

In my humble view, past trauma or hardships should not be seen as divine preparation for future suffering. While such experiences can bring fear, despair and even moments of questioning our faith, they also call for healing, just like a wound on our skin requires care to recover. 

Healing has the power to shape us by strengthening our resilience. Only Allah possesses complete wisdom and knowledge. Whatever happens in life, whether good or difficult, is ultimately a test of our faith and a means of building our character.

The wound is the place where the Light enters you.

Jalal-ad-Din Rumi

As humans, we all have a choice in how we respond to past trauma: it can either become a source of motivation and guidance, or a burden that weighs us down. Viewing hardships as punishment can lead to negativity, weakening both our faith and our ability to face future challenges. Instead, approaching them with trust in Allah’s wisdom allows for growth, healing and strength. 

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Maimoona Harrington
Maimoona Harrington
Maimoona Harrington was born and raised in Pakistan. She has a Bachelor’s degree in Middle Eastern Studies. As a practicing Muslim with extensive world travel and living in the West, she has devoted herself to spread awareness of Islam as a goodwill gesture. In an effort to do this, she started writing from her own personal experiences with religion, beliefs and life in a different culture. She also has special interest in all the religions and how and why they are all important to its followers. Her primary focus is on the co-existence and harmony between all human beings. Her message is to spread peace not division. She strongly believes that if you want to be closer to your creator then love His creation unconditionally and expect nothing in return for He loves us unconditionally and forgives us no matter how sinful we are!
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