Laypeople seeking deeper spiritual lives are increasingly joining religious communities as oblates, secular Franciscans, or associates—integrating monastic values like prayer, simplicity, and balance into their everyday routines.
Lent has shifted from guilt-driven rituals to spiritual renewal, with prayer, good works and reflection. Benedictines also encourage reading a new book!
Prayer often focuses on speaking, but true connection with God involves deep listening. St. Benedict emphasized humility, silence, and attentive listening to God.
Attitudes about Lent have changed over the decades. Instead of “giving up” something for Lent, the approach is more about growing closer to Christ in more meaningful ways.