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How many flags make you a patriot? 

Patriotism is shown through actions, not flags. Americans should reject political idolization and unite around democratic values.

By Paul Graves | FāVS News Columnist

The views expressed in this opinion column are those of the author. They do not necessarily reflect the views of FāVS News. 

I occasionally drive down one particular street in Hillsboro. To my right is a house with six American flags in an otherwise tastefully landscaped front yard. My use of “otherwise” implies I think the six flags are excessive. I think one would do just fine.

I’m sure the homeowner feels very patriotic. My question is, “How many flags make you a patriot?” I’ve never been a “public display” patriot. One flag hanging on our house has been “show” enough. 

Flags Don’t Make Patriots

As I consider the six-flag display, I ask my question and come up with a surprising, and perhaps even controversial, answer: No flag makes me a patriot. It’s how I act on behalf of patriotic values that correctly identifies me as a patriot.

The flag is a helpful reminder of patriotic work, but it mustn’t substitute for the ongoing, relentless need to work for democracy. Which brings me to the upcoming 250th anniversary of the Declaration of Independence in Washington, D.C.

Personally, I shudder as I anticipate the vanity-driven expressions of “patriotism” that will come on Trump’s June 14 birthday bash. Maybe he’ll hug the American flag as he’s done often before.

Cage-fighting at the White House, really? Don’t get me started on “the ballroom,” the Lincoln reflecting pool, his “Arch de Nauseous” project and $250 banknote with a menacing portrait of Trump. Projects and pronouncements leading up to July 4 and beyond, like a Grand Prix race around the Washington Monument?

All these test my resolve to be a civil patriot.

I recognize many people are enthralled with much of what our current president does and proposes. I’m definitely not one of those people.

I use that word “enthralled” purposely. It means someone or something “fascinates me, holds me spellbound.” That’s one way to describe fanatic followers of Mr. Trump.

Lincoln’s Warning Across Time

I recently saw Nicolle Wallace’s “Best People” interview with documentarian Ken Burns. At one point, he quoted part of Abraham Lincoln’s second annual message to Congress from Dec. 1, 1862. It was one month before Lincoln signed the Emancipation Proclamation.

“We can succeed only by concert. It is not ‘can any of us imagine better?’ but, ‘can we all do better?’…The [civil war] occasion is piled high with difficulty and we must rise with the occasion. As our case is new, we must think anew and act anew. We must disenthrall ourselves, and then we shall save our country.”

I was enthralled by Lincoln’s caution that we “must disenthrall ourselves…” to save the country.” Did you know “disenthrall” means to set free from bondage, slavery, or a controlling influence?

Being disenthralled means freedom from an obsession, freedom from being enchanted by something/someone, freedom from a misconception or false belief.

I share this out of deep concern for extremist believers on all sides. An enthralled patriot who either hugs a flag — or burns a flag — needs to be disenthralled from their potentially political and emotional slavery to toxic political correctness.

So I seriously suggest that “enthralled” patriots may need to be “disenthralled.” They need to recover from any patriotic blindness that does not act out values that reflect the best patriotism our history calls us to embody. When obsessed by an idea or a person, we can become enslaved by that idea and/or person. 
Many of us believe Trump’s presidency is seriously dangerous. Many others believe his presidency is our country’s salvation. It’s likely we all need to be disenthralled by superficial patriotism — so  together, we can find new ways to heal, and save, our country. 


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Paul Graves
Paul Graves
In March 2026, Paul will have completed 30 years as a faith/values writer, and he has plans to keep writing! After almost 37 years in Sandpoint, ID, Paul and his wife moved to Hillsboro, OR in March 2025, to be close to their son and family. They live in a retirement community, where Paul’s professional back as a retired United Methodist pastor and also a retired geriatric social worker, have been welcomed and are grist for the writing-mill on matters of spirituality, politics and aging.

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Walter Hesford
Walter Hesford
22 days ago

Thank you, Paul, for your disenthralling comments. I too shudder at what will happen on June 14 and also the 4th of July as the nation will be captive to Trump’s enthrallments.

Janet Marugg
Janet Marugg
21 days ago

I’m flying a pride flag all month — even on flag day — and next month, I’m flying a “Peace is Patriotic” flag — even on the 4th.