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Thursday, February 13, 2025

Paul Graves

Paul Graves is a retired and re-focused United Methodist pastor and a long-time resident of Sandpoint, Idaho, where he formerly served on city council and mayor. His second career is in geriatric social work, and since 2005 he's been the Lead Geezer-in-Training of Elder Advocates, a consulting and teaching ministry on aging issues. Since 1992, Graves has been a volunteer chaplain for Bonner Community Hospice. His columns regularly appear in The Spokesman-Review's Faith and Values section, and he also writes the Dear Geezer column for the Bonner County Daily Bee and is the host of the bi-weekly Geezer Forum on aging issues in Sandpoint.

Stacking up Stone Hearts

Rock-throwing is an international symbol of frustration and situational impotence.

Speak to the Darkness

So, I say this to religious leaders specifically, and anyone else who cares to listen: Come with me into the darkness, and let’s learn to speak to the darkness in new ways.        

Looking for the Soul of Christmas

I wonder if the Grinch story is so popular because it reminds its thoughtful readers that the soul of Christmas is, indeed, not where we look for it.

Sourdough Starts a Legacy

Values-legacy is what we receive from persons in our lives who pass along values, attitudes and actions that help make us who we are. 

Violence Meets a Whirlwind

A few Sundays ago, our pastor preached about God speaking to Job “out of a whirlwind” (Job 38:1-7). Why a whirlwind?

Shame and Blame are Each a Cruel Game

I hope this read for you contributes to a wake-up call to better understand the power of “shame” and “blame.”

But Where Is Home?

As I thought about your many transitions, I couldn’t help but reflect on our 2019 Sandpoint transition from our former house to our new house.

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