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By Vincent Lachina
When Maryland’s first female Episcopal bishop, the Rev. Heather Cook, was arrested recently and charged with multiple offenses, including manslaughter and intoxication, it was both shocking and sad. The excessive media focus on this tragedy has been painful, not only for the bishop and her congregation but also for congregations everywhere. People of all faiths have been moved to prayerful consideration about how to deal with such a difficult situation. On the one hand, there must be a respectful honoring of Cook as a notable minister, yet at the same time, the seriousness of the offenses cannot be put aside. It creates an internal conflict in processing the circumstances and finding a comfortable place in order to reach a mindful resolution.
One recurring aspect that arises from this event and others similar is the question of whether clergy should be held to a higher standard than those to whom we minister. There is an underlying thought among congregations that the clergy who leads them should behave in ways that reflect a higher moral standard. Whether that is justifiable or not has been a struggle many clergy deal with from time to time. The reality is that we clergy are just human beings exactly like those in our congregations. We are tempted, we have failings, and we have our own demons to deal with. At the same time, clergy are set apart by the very nature of a divine calling to ministry. We are set apart.
Is it fair that faith leaders are expected to behave at a higher level of respectability? Should clergy be held to a higher standard? Those are questions that have been debated for many years. Whatever the answer one decides is truth, there is a more compelling reality that must be faced. It is the undeniable fact that the consequences of any clergy’s fall from the pedestal of admiration and respect impacts in deep and lasting ways those who have placed their trust in us. There should always be serious consideration given to the congregations and individuals who are wounded and their faith challenged when the transgressions of a minister or rabbi are brought to light. In that sense, it is true that clergy are held to a higher standard, and perhaps we should be.
