Guest column by Patrick Scriven
Did you make a New Year’s Resolution? Have you broken it yet?
I’ve had some variation of this conversation several times already this new year, often with a shared sentiment that such resolutions are doomed to failure. On two separate occasions, individuals have jokingly shared “survival” as their resolution, perhaps a sign of the chaotic times we are living through.
It would surprise few to learn that whereas 45% of Americans make New Year’s Resolutions, only 8-10% keep them all year, with most cast aside by February. If we have a corporate understanding that these resolutions are futile, why do we continue to make them?
While I doubt there is a single answer that explains the enduring popularity of New Year’s Resolutions, I’d like to believe that it is a sign that people remain hopeful for better days, whatever that may mean for them. How might we resolve differently, then, to achieve greater success in our aspirations?
One possibility is to acknowledge that our resolutions often fail because they reflect the rugged individualism of the culture in which we live. Individuals can do hard things, sometimes, but they are much more likely to succeed with the support of others.
The month of December can be particularly challenging for many, especially those at the lower end of the economic spectrum, as resources often start to strain and the cultural expectations of the holidays outstrip the resources many have. Layered on top of this for many this past December were floods and the threats thereof, with lasting impacts affecting some communities.
That is why it was and is inspiring to see local churches, other non-profits, and generous individuals coming together to stock food banks, expand related services, assist flood-affected neighbors in need, donate to disaster response efforts, and provide presents for children during the holidays. All of this effort and energy expended during a busy holiday season!
As we look ahead to this new year, let us remember that hope is not just an individual pursuit, but something we nurture and strengthen together. The compassion and solidarity we witness in our community remind us that meaningful change is possible when we act collectively.
This year, perhaps our best resolution is to continue reaching out, supporting one another, and believing that through shared effort, we can succeed in making a difference in the lives of those around us, and our own.
The views expressed in this opinion column are those of the author. They do not necessarily reflect the views of FāVS News. FāVS News values diverse perspectives and thoughtful analysis on matters of faith and spirituality.
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