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By Neal Schindler

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part one

What is a Bar Mitzvah?

SPO_Ask-a-Jew-ad_042114“Bar” means son, “bat” means daughter and “mitzvah” means commandment or law. So a bar or bat mitzvah is literally a son or daughter of commandment (i.e., one who is expected to uphold the commandments of the Torah). The term bar or bat mitzvah is now commonly used to refer to the rite of passage that ushers a young person into (nominal) Jewish adulthood.

 

In Reform Judaism, bat mitzvahs, like bar mitzvahs, take place when a child is 13. In Judaism’s more conservative denominations, 12 is the standard bat mitzvah age. That said, a Jewish person may be bar or bat mitzvahed at any age (above 12 or 13). My mother, who is nearly 70, had her bat mitzvah not too many years ago, since she didn’t have one as a young girl.

During a Saturday morning service, a bar or bat mitzvah chants, in Hebrew, some of the weekly Torah portion and/or the haftarah, which contains material from the books of the prophets. The celebration that follows may resemble a wedding: It’s likely to feature music, gifts, and a lavish dinner and include family and friends from out of town. Numerous rights and responsibilities accrue to a bar or bat mitzvah.

These include moral responsibility for own actions, eligibility to be called to read from the Torah and lead or participate in a minyan, may possess personal property, may be legally married according to Jewish law, must follow the 613 laws of the Torah and keep the halakha, may testify as a witness in a Beth Din (Rabbinical court) case.

In modern Jewish society, of course, few 13-year-olds can be found marrying or testifying in Rabbinical court. But in theory, they could.

In the Reconstructionist congregation of my childhood, being bar or bat mitzvahed meant getting to co-lead religious services with more experienced adult members. I have fond memories of composing divrei Torah (commentaries) for the services I helped lead. This, more than any other result of my bar mitzvah, marked a meaningful transition for me from Jewish childhood to adulthood. (I also got to start wearing a tallis, the Jewish prayer shawl).

One last fun fact: It was the founder of Reconstructionist Judaism, Mordecai Kaplan, “who held the first public celebration of a bat mitzvah in the United States, for his daughter Judith, on March 18, 1922.” This is merely one aspect of the Reconstructionist movement’s rich legacy of Jewish progressivism.

Neal Schindler
Neal Schindler
A native of Detroit, Neal Schindler has lived in the Pacific Northwest since 2002. He has held staff positions at Seattle Weekly and The Seattle Times and was a freelance writer for Jew-ish.com from 2007 to 2011. Schindler was raised in a Reconstructionist Jewish congregation and is now a member of Spokane's Reform congregation, Emanu-El. He is the director of Spokane Area Jewish Family Services. His interests include movies, Scrabble, and indie rock. He lives with his wife, son, and two cats in West Central Spokane.

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