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Are all really welcome here in my home?

Guest Commentary by Beverly Gibb

Remember George Floyd? Most likely you do. His homicide by a Minneapolis police officer is pretty unforgettable. And certainly unforgivable. Following his death, you know, the one that we all watched repeatedly on TV. The horrific, purposeful smothering of a man crying for his mother as he slowly suffocated in front of observers who wanted to help him. Save him. 

Following this horrific event, I bought a sweatshirt with Black Lives Matter that I still wear today. I also bought a sign that says:

  • Black Lives Matter
  • Women’s Rights Are Human Rights
  • No Human Is Illegal
  • Embrace The Science
  • Diversity Makes Us Stronger
  • Injustice Anywhere Is Injustice Everywhere.

This sign is in my home’s front window. I’m proud of that. I also have a sign in that same window that says “All Are Welcome Here.” I’m proud of that one, too. I’ve strived to be an advocate. I have no idea what it is like to be Black, gay or transgender. I try to understand, and I want to support differences in our collective experiences. I hope I succeed, and I hope I offer support to all of our differences.

Imagine my stunned surprise when my bestie visited after the inauguration. He’s gay, and we’ve been friends for over a decade. He’s seen my signs and never said a word. As we talked about the current administration, he said I should remove my “All Are Welcome” sign. Say what?

He asked me if all ARE welcome here? I said of course! He asked about Trump. As I thought about that, I said I would like to visit with him. Mostly to conduct a mental health exam. But I would welcome his visit to discern his thoughts, and perhaps to change his thinking.

Hubris is one of my faults! He then asked me about the Jan. 6 rioters who had just been pardoned. Well no, I would not welcome them nor any white supremists or violent insurrectionists, especially individuals who beat police officers and damaged our glorious Capitol. I would not welcome them into my home.

So, what to do with my sign? Put masking tape over All? Put masking tape that says “Some” or “Most,” or just cover “All are” so it just says “Welcome”? Or, sadly, take the sign down? I don’t understand why our new administration puts citizens of the United States in this moral and ethical quandary. What a dilemma. 

And just now, on my music playlist, comes “God Bless The U.S.A” by Lee Greenwood. Thank you. I will keep my sign just as it is.


The views expressed in this opinion column are those of the author. They do not necessarily reflect the views of FāVS News. FāVS News values diverse perspectives and thoughtful analysis on matters of faith and spirituality.

Beverly Gibb
Beverly Gibb
Beverly Gibb is a retired mental health professional who has begun a spiritual exploration in recent years. She lives with her dog, Jack Whippet, who is exploring with her.

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Walter Hesford
Walter Hesford
13 days ago

In my church we often sing “All Are Welcome”….your column raises the good question as to whether we really mean it. Thank you.

Janet Marugg
Janet Marugg
12 days ago

The thinnest of lines draws the border between things sometimes. For me, I am not obligated to entertain racism, misogyny, bigotry, etc. from anybody. But rather, I’m obliged to cull it as it is harmful to humanity.

One reason for Bev sticking with the “ALL” sign is that people aren’t their bigotry, misogyny, racism, etc. Not really. Underneath false beliefs is our sameness, our humanity.

chuck mcglocklin
chuck mcglocklin
12 days ago

I live in a family of immigrants. I have personally sponsored 2 wives, 2 mother in laws, 3 stepsons, a daughter in law, a grandson and 9 other relatives, one came, 1 denied, 4 which have died waiting, one no longer wants to come and 2 that, petitioned in 2007, have just been approved to start the paper process that may take 6 months to a year to finish and be approved.
Each petition comes at a cost as does the physicals, background checks, collecting documents, etc., in hopes that it will be approved. We have easily spent $40 to 50K in the past 40 years.
I do not talk to them about immigration because they have all become MAGA. I try to remind them that God is the One we trust; not whoever is in the White House.

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